One great feature of any cruise is that there are several excursions available at different ports of call. In St. Maarten, Royal Caribbean offers one called Snuba. “Snuba” is basically diving that doesn’t require certification. A tank sits on a raft and there are several tubes coming out attached to breathing regulators. Each person gets [...]
Posts Tagged ‘communication’
Don’t Get Caught Buck Naked (or Nekkid)
“Don’t Get Caught Buck Naked.” Sounds like some pretty sound relationship advice, doesn’t it? In fact, this tool is effective in just about any relationship you can conceive; professional, friendship, parent to child, child to parent, or (unfortunately) some marriages and romances. I learned this valuable lesson, and how to apply this technique in relationships, [...]
Three Techniques To Improve Listening Skills: Listen to Connect
There is a time and a place to share your opinions. You have developed your perspectives from the many experiences you have gathered throughout your life. The lessons you have learned allow you to be of service to others who may benefit from your knowledge. In order to impart this information effectively, [...]
Intellect Over Emotion: Successful Business Relationships
As an employer, I depend upon my employees having a 100 percent commitment to their jobs. They depend on me having a 100 percent commitment to mine. As a result of these commitments, we have strong work relationships.
A successful business is built on strong relationships.
Whether it is the employer to employee, co-worker to co-worker, or [...]
Lessons From Modern Technology
So I was having one of those mornings. The kind where a series of events unfold that challenge your ability to stay peaceful and serene. You know, those times you shouldn’t be permitted to interact with other humans. Allow me to explain:
This week, after months of diligent research and the purposeful delay of gratification, I [...]
Commitment is the Key
Elena found herself in an extremely difficult situation. After making the decision to change the dynamic of a relationship with a long-term supplier, she realized it would be a tough sell. Elena wanted to alter the connection because she had noticed a degree of mistrust in her dealings with the supplier, and she thought she [...]
Improve Any Relationship (Even Those at Work)
Last week I had the opportunity to facilitate a seminar at Advanced Services, a pest control company in Augusta, Georgia. I was invited by Jeff Annis, the owner, to speak about healthy communication in the work place. Jeff didn’t invite me due to problems at Advanced, he simply wanted to see if there were ways [...]
Clear Communication
My mother sent me a survey the other day she needed to complete for a school project. The questions were interesting so I decided to share it to see what kind of responses I [...]
I Turned Out O.K.
In my book, Relationships for the Intimately Challenged, I discuss limiting beliefs that affect people’s relationships at length. One of the main points I get into is negative scripting patterns that families hold on to in order to maintain security and the status quo. These scripting patterns are made abundantly clear through the ways adults view children [...]
Tell Me What You Think
I would love to hear your opinions on a couple of questions. Comment and read other’s comments.
What quality is MOST important to you in a spouse?
What quality do you believe is most important to nurture in children?
Which of your relationships provides insight into your definition of happiness?
What defines success for you TODAY?
To help out, here [...]


